Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Some Peoples Children! Geeze!

Nosey, mean, stupid people suck. And I am just in the mood for this.
Ive never had to try to stop myself from using my blog, as a soap box to stand on in the freedom, (hiding from in the privacy of it is more like it) of my own home and chastise, criticize, cut down, talk shit about, judge, or other wise harass people. Its just not in me to do those things. I prefer to be happy and enjoy life and let the good times roll. It must be a difficult life for some one who has to constantly be in such a hateful state that they feel the need to do those kinds of things.
Some one who "feels" the need to do those things is one thing, we all must at some point in our lives, feel the "urge" to say things and do things that really are none of our business to say and do, I can understand that. But having the maturity and where with all to actually stop ones self from doing those things is a whole other ball game. Most people have the common decency to think, and then think again, and I can respect that. Those who cannot, I have no respect for, nor do I have less than a dim view of their ability to be mature enough, sane enough or sober enough to leave well enough alone. It is a sad state of affairs when one is so consumed with pure unadulterated meanness, that it blinds them to what is right and wrong. I would further accept the possibility that people who behave in this manner, also haven't the sensibility to know good from bad, kind from mean, and certainly don't have the capacity to understand happy and sad. Because they are so consumed with things they just cant let go of. Does one feel sorry for such people? Does one ignore such people? Does one get fed up with such people and decide to change lanes and slap back? Should a slight be allowed to turn into a free for all? Or, does one do the grown up thing, and be the bigger person, and just laugh it off. Some people can be just so utterly ridiculous, that that seems to be the only way to deal with such people. But some days laughing at stupid people can be hard. So today I have decided to climb up on my soap box, and declare, that there are some really stupid, annoying, and just plain asinine people in this world, and they can all BITE ME!
Think I'm talking about YOU?? Tsk,Tsk,Tsk....shakes head sadly. Guilty conscious?

10 comments:

sheepkelpie said...

Hey chick
I hear you. My blog isn't to be used as a means to tear others down- blogs should be interesting, and fun to read, not be a way to insult others. Trust me, those who write insulting, negative stuff are outed quickly- and by that I mean that they lose their audience- the exact thing that they are trying to get. So, do what my mother says "Don't let the Turkey's get you down", and simply, don't acknowledge their existence :)

My other favorite is: Don't wrestle with pigs, you only get dirty, and they like it.

Darci said...

I only eat turkey once a year, but in this case I may have to start to make an exception. Pig wrestling?...Im very adept at, after all, Ive been married 3 times! LOL

Katy said...

Sometimes when people are mean and nosy its really because they are crazy inside. Often this happens from too much florescent lighting and proximity to discount shoes made from chinese children's skin.

Katy said...

PS: I don't blame you if you do not post my comments. Often I go too far. I'm outraged on your behalf...

Darci said...

Gosh Katy, Sorry, but I some how lost one of your comments, if youd care to repeat that,Id be happy to post them all.

(Quote from Katy)"Often this happens from too much florescent lighting and proximity to discount shoes made from chinese children's skin.

ROFLMAO!!!!! Tooooo funny!

Sam said...

"Because they are so consumed with things they just cant let go of. Does one feel sorry for such people? Does one ignore such people?"
I know exactly where you're coming from.

Ignoring it is definitely the best approach, but not always the easiest. So vent away!
(it also helps to keep records, though ;))

Darci said...

Thanks Sam. I usually wouldnt say any thing, just ignore stupid people, and the stupid things they do, but for the same token, I believe people need to be held accountable for the wrongs that they do. The stockdog world is small, and reputations within that small world, are built on and recognized by who you are and how you present yourself. Certin types of people will dig their own graves, and shit in thier own nests. And if I cant hold them accountable for thier wrongs, at least I can point those wrongs out.

sheepkelpie said...

I agree with Sam- records are useful, it is a small world, and all those things that you say/do, that are slanderous, do come back to haunt you. Treat people like you would like to be treated. Don't engage in their games. Their reputation is the one that's on the line. Be above it.

Your Mom said...

I think I got lost somewhere in the middle of this tirade. Never did read what you were upset about. Perhaps it's in there somewhere, but I can't recall reading it. It's obvious that someone said or did something that was inappropriate. As my mother used to say, "Leave well enough alone." Guess that means ignore a bad situation and walk away. People can't make us angry, we ALLOW them to do so. Therefore, quit giving other people that right. Mother had another saying, "Kiss your mad spot and get glad again!"

Darci said...

Hi Mom,
no, you didnt miss anything, it didnt start on my blog, you know me,... I dont start stuff, Im a finisher.
Sage advise from you and from beyond the grave, thank you. And Dee Dee too! No worries, I will behave. Dont I always.....LOL!